Sometimes we need help getting through the most challenging times of life. Maybe you don’t know what to do. Perhaps you need some Bible verses to help console you during those hard times. We live in a fallen world, and there will be times when someone will mistreat you or wrong you. It is never fun when this happens, but God has given us His Word to comfort us when we are hurting. You will need these 17 Bible verses when someone has wronged you:

Bible verses when someone has wronged you

We’ve all been hurt by the words and actions of others. When those wounded feelings surface, it’s easy to lose your cool, react in anger, or hold a grudge that works its way into your heart.

John 16:33 – Be consoled

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.”

John 16:33 ESV 

John 16_33 - Be Consoled

When you are wronged, the Bible is full of reassuring words. God understands how it feels to be wronged and how difficult it can be to forgive those who have harmed us.

His Word brings us consolation, hope, and the assurance that our suffering will end one day.

Matthew 7:12 – Do unto others what you want them to do to you

So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets
Matthew 7:12

Matthew 7_12 - Do Unto Others What You Want Them To Do To You

This is a beautiful verse to remember when you’ve been wronged. When someone has wronged us, it’s tempting to become caught up in our hurt and fury, but this prevents us from letting go of our rage and resentment.

Why should we treat them like that? We wouldn’t want them to treat us that way, so why should we treat them?

This Bible verse should help you rethink your perspective about how you respond when someone wrongs you.

Proverbs 20:22 – Wait on the Lord rather than seek revenge.

Do not say, “I will repay evil”; wait for the Lord, and he will deliver you.

Proverbs 20:22 ESV 

Proverbs 20_22 - Wait On The Lord Rather Than Seek Revenge

Many instances of how to deal with those who have wronged us can be found in the Bible. Luke 6:28-29 is one such example. If someone strikes us on the right cheek, Jesus says we should give them the other. It’s natural to want to avenge yourself if you’ve been harmed. However, this Bible text instructs us to wait on the Lord rather than seek vengeance. According to the Bible, God will repay evil in His own time and manner.

Luke 23:34 – The depth of Christ’s forgiveness

And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments.
Luke 23:34 ESV

Luke 23_34 - The Depth Of Christ'S Forgiveness

When the soldiers wronged Jesus on the cross, we are reminded of what he did. When the appalling miscarriage of justice occurred, when hatred for God and His Christ reached the peak of humanity’s depravity, our Saviour’s first thought was eternal forgiveness, not wrath, retribution, or self-pity.
He exemplified a depth of forgiving love that is beyond comprehension. As a result, we should do the same, particularly when others wrong us.

James 4:17 – Don’t turn a blind eye to your sufferings

Therefore to him that knoweth to do good, and doeth it not, to him it is sin.
James 4:17 (KJV)
James 4_17 - Don'T Turn A Blind Eye To Your Sufferings 
God will not forget the wrongs that have been done to you, nor will he turn a blind eye to your suffering. Consider the implications if you are inclined to exact vengeance on someone who wronged you. Is it going to solve anything? Do not seek revenge or hold a grudge against someone who has offended or insulted you.

Romans 12:1-2 – Be not conformed to this world

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.  And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

Romans 12:1-2(KJV)

Romans 12_1-2 - Be Not Conformed To This World 

We are more than conquerors through Christ who loves us, according to Romans 8:28. To be more than conquerors, we must forgive others when they wrong us, for it is not how many wrongs they have done to us that matters, but how many times we can forgive them before it is our turn.

It is critical for us as Christians/believers to forgive people since this strengthens our faith and brings glory to God.

1 John 2:4 – Love those who have wronged you

He that saith, I know him, and keepeth not his commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him.

1 John 2:4(KJV)

1 John 2_4 - Love Those Who Have Wronged You

The Bible emphasizes the importance of God’s love. The love of God for us is what drives us to repent of our sins and return to Him.

But what if someone wrongs you? How can you continue to love them? When someone does something cruel or even horrible towards us, it’s simple for our emotions to become agitated. However, this verse from 1 John reminds us how we can continue to love people who wronged us by always keeping God’s Word in our hearts and minds.

Matthew 18:15 – Do not harbor a grudge

Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.

Matthew 18:15(KJV)

This is the Bible verse I turn to when I’ve been wronged. I believe it is critical to remember that God is on our side and that we should pray for people before approaching them about their actions.

We must also be careful not to become enraged or harbor grudges, leading to bitterness and hatred.

Romans 12:17-19 – Do not take revenge

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone.  If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.  Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.

Romans 12:17-19(NIV)

We must give the other person the benefit of the doubt and show them love, according to Romans 12:17-19. This is because we are all sinners, and as sinners, we are capable of wrongdoing toward others.

Instead of carrying a grudge against them or seeking revenge on them, we should love and pray for them.

Luke 17:4 – Forgive those who wrong you.

And if he sins against you seven times a day, and returns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ forgive him.”

Luke 17:4

This verse reminds us that we are accountable for our actions when we wrong others. We must confess our sins and make amends. God commands us to love one another as we love ourselves. If we have caused someone else to stumble, we must take the appropriate steps to rectify the situation.

Ephesians 4:31-32 – Forgive one another as Christ forgave you

 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice.  Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
Ephesians 4:31-32]
This verse means that if someone has wronged you, you have the option of ignoring them and moving on in peace, or you can continue to be angry and bitter toward them. Forgiveness will free you from the shackles of bitterness and hatred that bind you to your past mistakes,

2 Corinthians 13:11 – Live in Peace and be of one mind

Finally, brothers, good-by. Aim for perfection, listen to my appeal, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you.
2 Corinthians 13:11

This text is frequently quoted as a model for how we should respond when someone has wronged us, and It’s natural to seek justice and retaliation when someone has wronged us. Don’t let them rob you of your happiness. Don’t let their bad behavior force you to miss out on God’s blessings. Paul advises us to live in peace and be of one mind.

1 Peter 3:8- 9 – Repay evil for good

Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble.  Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.

1 Peter 3:8-9 ESV

Forgiveness does not imply that you approve of what was done to you. It entails releasing the impulse for vengeance or retaliation against them. It involves no longer wishing them harm. It consists in letting go of any resentment you may have toward them.

When we are hurting and dealing with a situation where someone has wronged us, and we don’t know what to do or handle it, we can find consolation and strength in God’s Word.

1Peter 4:19 – Continue to do good

So then, those who suffer according to God’s will should commit themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

1Peter 4:19 ESV

Prayer: You know everything, Lord Jesus Christ, and You know what is in my heart. Please pardon me for my transgressions. I claim Your blood as payment for my sin debt.

Thank you for pardoning all of my sins. Assist me in forgiving those who have wronged me and asking for pardon when necessary.

Strengthen my trust so that I can do what is right in Your eyes even when it appears to be difficult or impossible. Amen, in Jesus’ holy name.

Proverbs 10:12 – Love covers all wrongs

Hatred stirs up conflict, but love covers over all wrongs.

Proverbs 10:12 NIV

This verse can be applied to any situation where you need to forgive someone who has done you wrong. You will be free of the agony they caused you if you can ignore them and let go.

Matthew 5:38- 39,44 – Love your enemies and pray for them

 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Eye for eye, and tooth for tooth.’  But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to them the other cheek also. But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you

Matthew 5:38- 39,44 NIV

This verse discusses how Christians should regard one another. As Christians, the Bible teaches us to love our adversaries because God loves us even if we are sinners.

This indicates that if someone wrongs us or mistreats us, we should treat them kindly. We should not seek vengeance or attempt to retaliate in any way.

Instead, we should pray for them, asking God to change their hearts and lead them to repentance.

Proverbs 19:19 – Do not be full of anger

A hot-tempered person must pay the penalty; rescue them, and you will have to do it again.

Proverbs 19:19 NIV

This verse tells us that God will punish the person who is full of anger and wrath. God wants us to enjoy peace and joy in our lives. We allow Satan to rule over us when we cling to bitterness and rage. God desires for us to live a joyous life filled with serenity and joy.

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