In the Bible, there’s no mistaking the importance of respect and reverence for God. From the very first verse to every 60th, you’ll notice that God doesn’t just give parents responsibilities but a high standard as well. Several bible verses about disrespect to parents aid us in understanding the importance of this commandment, both in terms of parents and children.
Is being disrespectful to your parents a sin?
The short answer is yes. Disrespecting your parents is a sin, and in the Bible, it’s called “disobedience.” God hates disobedience (Ephesians 5:6). It’s a sin against God and a sin against others.
In Matthew 15:4-6, Jesus says this about those who displease their parents: “If you honor one of these little ones who believe in Me, your life will be spared even though you believe in Me. But if you do not honor them, I will blot out your name from the Book of Life.”
The Bible tells us that we are children of God (1 John 3:1). We’re born with a spiritual nature that makes us want to obey God’s commands (Ecclesiastes 12:7). The problem is that we can choose not to obey Him—and when we do, it puts us at odds with our heavenly Father.
Bible verses about disrespect to parents
Parents are a tremendous blessing to children, and most people of sound minds would agree with this. But unfortunately, some people do not treat them respectfully, which can hurt the children. One way in which such behavior may be expressed is through their language. In this article, we’re going to talk about 13 Bible verses about disrespect to parents.
Leviticus 20:9 – Disrespect towards parents is disrespect towards God.
For anyone who curses his father or his mother shall surely be put to death; he has cursed his father or his mother; his blood is upon him.
Leviticus 20:9 ESV
Parents stand for a lot of sacrifice and selflessness. And if we dismiss that and believe it is unimportant, we are not in agreement with God. It is an important commandment because it imparts us the fundamentals of comprehending devotion, selflessness, sacrifice, and obedience.
Thankfully, today, cursing our parents doesn’t result in death, allowing us the opportunity to turn around and behave better.
Proverbs 29:15 – Parents play a significant role in the behavior of their children.
The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.
Proverbs 29:15 ESV
The Bible talks a lot about the importance of discipline, not just for our kids’ sake but also for our own. We are warned that God will if we don’t discipline our children and ourselves. Therefore, we as children must learn HOW to discipline ourselves.
Matthew 15:4 – God gave a direct commandment to respect your parents.
For God commanded, ‘Honor your father and your mother,’ and, ‘Whoever reviles father or mother must surely die.’
Matthew 15:4 ESV
This was an explicit instruction from God, given to the Israelites by Moses and written in his hand. It was of a moral character and of eternal obligation to understand, not just that children should hold their parents in high regard and treat them with respect via their words and actions as well as by willing obedience.
Exodus 20:12 – The assurance of a long life that comes with paying tribute to one’s parents.
“Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you.
Exodus 20:12 ESV
Children learn respect for God through their parents’ guidance and care for those in power. It puts the onus squarely on the shoulders of the father and mother to raise children morally and teach them how to live righteously.
The first commandment to include a promise is the fifth commandment, which Moses gave to the Israelites. The assurance of a long life that comes with paying tribute to one’s parents.
Ephesians 6:1-4 – All children are responsible for respecting and following their parents.
Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Ephesians 6:1-4 ESV
Children are required to obey their parents in the Lord because that is right, and parents are expected to train their children to follow God’s desire.
All children are responsible for respecting and following their parents in the Lord because doing so is right and proper and God’s will.
Proverbs 13:24 – Parents and discipline.
Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.
Proverbs 13:24 ESV
When Solomon used the word “rod,” he was alluding to the loving parental correction of a well-liked child. Quite the opposite of the secular saying, “Spare the rod, spoil the child.”
We will be able to perceive that the hardships we are going through right now are evidence that God is treating us like sons when we can understand that just as a father who withholds his rod dislikes his son, while the one who loves his child relentlessly disciplines him. What father would not enforce discipline on his son?
Colossians 3:20 – God acknowledges and appreciates respect towards parents.
Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.
Colossians 3:20 ESV
Paul makes it quite apparent that there are fundamental rules for every family member, including the kids, when he describes proper behavior in a Christian home.
This instruction to “be submissive to your parents in all respects, for this is well-pleasing to the Lord” does not exempt a kid from having non-Christian parents because the Lord has promised to grant His abundant grace to everyone who trusts in Him.
Deuteronomy 21:18-21 – Parents are responsible for raising and disciplining their offspring.
“If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and, though they discipline him, will not listen to them, then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city at the gate of the place where he lives, and they shall say to the elders of his city, ‘This our son is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.’ Then all the men of the city shall stone him to death with stones. So you shall purge the evil from your midst, and all Israel shall hear, and fear.
Deuteronomy 21:18-21 ESV
The Bible acknowledges the rights and obligations of the family members in this verse. In addition to teaching and training their children, parents are responsible for raising and disciplining their offspring.
However, parents also have the right to ask the community for help if a child starts to act rebelliously and disrespectfully.
Ephesians 6:4 – Duty of parents.
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
Ephesians 6:4 ESV
Paul here gives instructions to fathers. Paul deliberately chooses to speak to fathers about their responsibilities. It’s far too simple for fathers to delegate parenting duties to moms instead of taking care of our kids ourselves.
A child can be provoked by being unjust and favoring one youngster over another, whether out of laziness or on purpose. It can result from nagging without offering assistance or from unreserved censure, degrading remarks, or jokes told at their expense.
Paul urges fathers to understand that they have a specific duty to their offspring and that this duty must be taken seriously.
Proverbs 30:17 – God detests disrespect.
The eye that mocks a father and scorns to obey a mother will be picked out by the ravens of the valley and eaten by the vultures.
Proverbs 30:17 ESV
Children first come into contact with parents while they are young. Kids will disrespect other authority figures if they do not learn to respect and obey their parents. Therefore, even parents who face shame should result in punishment.
This proverb is added to God’s condemnation of verbal offenses against parents because God detests irreverent looks, gestures, and attitudes toward parents.
1 Timothy 5:1 – Honor your parents without condition.
Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father.
God tells us to respect and honor various leaders, including secular government officials, based on their position and age rather than their morality or integrity. We keep our parents not because they “deserved” it but because God says we should.
1 John 4:20 – We don’t get to choose.
Whoever claims to love God yet hates a brother or sister is a liar. For whoever does not love their brother and sister, whom they have seen, cannot love God, whom they have not seen.
1 John 4:20(NIV)
I know people who have “boundaries” in their relationship with their parents because they find their parents tiresome, even though they love ungodly unbelievers enough to spend their lives proclaiming the gospel. But, of course, that implies that they are choosing which of God’s laws to follow, demonstrating a lack of love for God and their parents.
Proverbs 22:6 – The good news.
Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.
Proverbs 22:6 ESV
Boys, girls, and grandchildren are gifts from God. So may those who have been blessed with children—whether our own or belong to someone else—seek to bring them up on the path they should go.
We pray they will not stray from the path of righteousness as they grow older. May we share with them the good news of Jesus Christ and guide them day by day toward godly behavior, intelligent decisions, and proper accountability.